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Board Gambling discussion
Re: Couple won the jackpot but split soon after!
by
rahmad2nd
on 04/03/2024, 11:47:40 UTC
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Have you ever tried something like this situation before?
So what is your thoughts on this, 50/50 good for you or nah?
Will you insist to have an ego battle if you are on the same situation?
If your answer is yes then Why?
And if no then why not?
What are the things you would do to resolve the issue?
How do you think you can handle this kind of situation?


This story is unique and a little complicated after I read the link you shared, in the contents of this thread post. in fact, I am not in the capacity to give an assessment of these two couples, especially regarding the prize for the lottery winnings they won. I don't dare to speculate and give an opinion based on the story in the link you shared, because I don't know these two people. moreover, things related to the background of the relationship between these two people. so, I will just try to answer the question you asked.

First of all, I have never experienced this situation. because, my partner doesn't like betting, whether it's lottery or games that are usually available on a casino platform. second point, this is actually very confusing for me. especially, if I have to assume a 50/50 split to be fair.  third point, for me, this is a matter of trust. I don't know who actually has the right to win this lottery, especially if I win it. This winning money is our shared money, it doesn't need to be shared to be fair. because if I win as described in this post, automatically everything will be for mutual needs and includes things related to desires. the point is, am I someone who can be trusted, and vice versa. the problem of who keeps this winning money, depends on both of them. if it were me, I would fully discuss it first with my partner. what do we plan to do in the future, and how do we ensure that this money doesn't go to waste. If my wife asked him to save it as a joint savings, I would fully give it because we have mutual trust in each other. Well, I have answered your question. from the first point, to the third point.

Anyway, for me this is a matter of distrust. I don't know for sure how the behavior of the two couples is described in this thread. and that's why, I don't dare assume that it's not my portion. Plus, I've never experienced a problem like this.
On the other hand, my partner is always a living alarm when I start to go overboard regarding my gambling.