But that makes what I’m saying. It’s foolish for a partner to be all in love and happy when their other partner is winning all the gamble. But when he/she loses, the love is gone and you want a divorce. If it were me, I’d divorce her because it means that she never really loved me. When you love someone, you should be with them at their worst (especially if you were always with them at all the bright times).
Understandably, you feel that way. Relationships should ideally be built on mutual love, support, and understanding, regardless of external circumstances such as financial success or failure. True love encompasses standing by your partner through both the good times and the bad.
If a partner's love and commitment seem to hinge solely on financial success or failure, it may indeed raise questions about the depth of their feelings and the foundation of the relationship. It's natural to expect unwavering support and solidarity from a partner, especially during challenging times.
However, it's essential to approach such situations with empathy and understanding, as individual responses to stress and adversity can vary. Communication and open dialogue are crucial in addressing concerns and finding ways to strengthen the relationship. Ultimately, every relationship is unique, and decisions regarding divorce or separation should be carefully considered and made with the well-being of both partners in mind. If a partner's behaviour or actions consistently undermine the foundation of trust and love in the relationship, it may be necessary to reevaluate the relationship and consider what is truly best for both parties involved.