I decided to cancel our marriage anniversary celebration because I insighted that there is more to gain In my continues hodling while the markets skyrockets than selling off my hodled coins just for ceremonial pleasures which can not profer me financial returns other than consuming the ones saved.
Congratulations for your decision! You are a wise man who have long term goals and care about the future and welfare of your family! What you did is completely understandable. Bitcoin bull run is an unique event every 4 years, and we don't even know if next bull cycles are going to be so rewarding like the current one. On the other hand, you can schedule a new marriage ceremonial anytime, without restrictions. So let's prioritize Bitcoin investment for now.
Now, my wife seized not to understand what my logical points about this are because she is not the one providing for the family.
As a woman she is, I clearly understood that they are attracted to pleasures especially on activities that attracts public attentions. These species of humans (women) fails to understand that it is money that afford those pleasury materials and activities they craves for which one has to utilize himself logically in economical situations so as to create financial balanced system before chasing after those financial consuming activities without the potentials of yielding incomes.
Well, she should understand your logics, because it's pretty clear and simple, besides benefiting her as well after all, as you are doing this for both of you. I'm not sure if we could generalize and put every women on the same basket, as there are women who would be totally comprehensive and support the partner on his decision, while putting her personal desires aside, just like the man is doing, in order to achieve something better for the couple in the future.
To consider every women to be blind and fool consumerists is to consider women can't have long term goals. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'm reluctant into believing it's really true... At least, that is not the personality of woman which would attract me to propitiate a strong bond such as a marriage.