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A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.
How on earth would someone give chasing after income holidays even when you do not have more than enough and not up to the age of retirement yet?
And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life.
As at this moment, the country is encountering very high rate of inflation which stuffs doesn't go fair as before leading him sold his car and being struggling to pay his bills while living in the city and at now, he does not have a place of residence of his own so he jumps from one place to the other passing his night's.
He is now the pest perching on any available places conditionally while inconveniencing others.
He now lives a low key with the best he can afford.
"Had I know" is now a national anthem to him.
I don't find his ignorance to be an excuse and I am thinking of disassociating from him before he gets me affected with his negative possesed energies.
If you do not feel like keeping the friendship of this person then just end it, however even if you think that what your friend is doing is wrong, after you gave your advice a few times and it was ignored, you should just not mention it again, I know people like that too, and while I like them as people, that does not mean that I do not see how terrible they are at managing their finances, and most likely they will not enjoy a peaceful life when they reach the retirement age on their country.