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Board Gambling discussion
Re: Keeping your gambling habit a secret.
by
Amphenomenon
on 09/03/2024, 13:58:34 UTC
It is crucial that we speak with them at the beginning so that they are aware of our activities and the kinds of vices or hobbies we indulge in. After all, there are no secrets that should remain hidden. We shall know what will happen at the end, which is why there are always regrets. What will happen when we cross our boundaries and engage in undesirable behavior, such as getting debt from gambling, because we will become used to it? Even when we bring problems to ourselves, our family and loved ones are the ones who support us and help us find solutions. Sometimes, they even become involved as a result of our careless and dumb behavior.
This is the main reason I would never advise anyone to be ever ashamed, scared or for any other reasons keep any habits a secret especially gambling because when the state of addiction, desperation or any gambling bad habits is popping in, we can't see it earlier but others do.
Also I can't hide anything I love just because of Fear or being scared of speaking about it to those around me
If you are afraid that your gambling habit cannot be controlled, you need someone to remind you of this because after experiencing an addiction to gambling and you cannot control yourself from gambling, of course this will make you experience financial problems which can make you unable to fulfill your needs. about the needs you need and this really depends on a person's personality, but people who don't want their gambling habits to be known by other people certainly have different reasons to what you have mentioned.
actually those people who is addicted in gambling cannot control their gambling because they are fully addicted in gambling and in order for them to control it, it will take them out of time to understand the procedures that makes them to be addicted in gambling so what I want us to know is that to control gambling is when The Gambler does not have much fund to gamble any longer but the process whereby The Gambler have a funds in his situation I think that it will continue to gamble until problem from the family like the wife or the parents kick against gambling with violence that is when is mentality of being addicted in gambling will you reset
Not having funds to gamble doesn't stop a gambler from gambling once he/she is addicted or tending to the state of addiction because they can't really notice this changes themselves and even if they do, they may likely fail to control themselves since it has now become an addiction, While violence is not the key answer against gambling addiction or any kind of addiction though it may work but not for everyone, those who are victim of gambling addiction and now free from it majority of them came out not through violent means but rather support from those around them or families