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Board Gambling discussion
Re: Keeping your gambling habit a secret.
by
Fredomago
on 11/03/2024, 17:08:58 UTC
However, although gambling addicts are usually terrible, there are many people today who are irresponsibly gambling only and are destroying their families and society. Because gambling usually leads people to ruin but there are many gamblers out there gambling for fun. A man I know who ruined his family by gambling and sold lots of land is now a carefree single. He roams the streets and is now a fugitive in debt due to his gambling losses, so gambling is generally good as well as bad but not addictive.

Gamble and don't be an addictive one because it will definitely ruined one's reputation in the system. We're not gods but humans in the real world, moreover we can be taking extra bold steps in making sure we start earning from the system with appropriate means, I'm talking about tremendous winnings. Why expose your gambling activities when you can be milking the system in mute phase. I'm just here to gather the extra change I can be able to lay my hands on and never doubt the act of losing heavily in the system.
I think this depends on human nature itself because sometimes there are people who are addicted to gambling places, but they can control that feeling and keep their addiction a secret from gambling places. At least gambling places can be used to find pleasure, even though they have a system that cannot guarantee profits for the players.

Or maybe they want to hide their activity because they have a judgemental family members or friends who always critisize them once they knew that they are doing gambling activity. you know? it can't be avoided especially nowadays, usually our elderly relatives are the ones who can judge us too much but once they are the ones who need financial help, they will also come to you.
I don't agree with the word judgment. but it's more appropriate to criticize. The fact is that whether you are a relative or friend, you will definitely view gambling activities as bad. So when we find out that we are doing this activity, we will definitely be criticized like the basic gamblers who always spend money. and other words.

If you judge more, don't gamble, because it can make you bankrupt. Yes, there is, but it seems that this applies to families who are very close to us and don't want us to fall into the world of gambling which is said to be misleading.

A kind of caring gestures that wanted to remind us, if that can be take as positive criticism maybe yes it can help but most of the time, that kind of a judgemental mentality hurt the feelings of a person who are involve into gambling, they just wanted stay away when they know that whatever words they've heard implies that they are being judge badly becuase they are involve in gambling, not many can take  a positive criticizm but most are not.

They will not listen and most of them will avoid communicating as they don't want any confrontations.