In my opinion, the reality is that money can change a person. by getting a big win or a large amount of money, of course it does influence thinking, usually people will experience changes when they have a lot of money. This is clearly a reality because in my environment there are cases like this too. People who get big wins tend not to care about relationships or anything else because they feel like they have a lot of money so they think they can have everything with the money they get. with them separating, perhaps because of their respective egos, which are both large, whereas they cannot take a better middle path, only thinking about their own egos, until the decision that occurs is separation.
It's true what you say, maybe it's because of their greed, but in my opinion, if the party who wins can share it well, in the sense that they are already in a serious relationship then everything should be done together. including the victory obtained, if it is discussed properly, perhaps there will be no separation. However, in reality, humans do have the nature of being greedy with their own portions, especially with money. When you have a large amount of money, change or selfishness will definitely emerge.
What you say is very true, in fact, there are people who care more about money than the love that another person may feel for them, for them money is more important, in fact I have a friend whose woman left him, she He went to the USA and the business they both had, what she did was steal everything from him, she left him bankrupt and with many debts, they had been together for 23 years, with children already of age, and she didn't care at all and left him, so These are the things that I don't understand, my friend in the middle of his sadness and anger told me that when men have money we think about our family, our wife and children, but when a woman has money she only thinks about herself, of course not. I told him nothing because the moment he was going through was not easy at all, he cried and told me that he felt like he was going to die, something that really hit him a lot, of course I understood that what he said about women was for a reason. act of rage and helplessness, I know that many of them are not like that. I told him that this would happen to him if he found another woman, but at that moment, my greatest joy was seeing him yesterday with another woman. He came to my house. and he introduced her to me and my wife and my 2-year-old daughter, at least if that relationship doesn't last, well it doesn't matter, you know that at this point you have already overcome the most difficult thing, even if it is with the help of that woman who is much more younger than him, he is 52, she is 32, some age difference, but I hope everything turns out well for them.
The difference is that she is from a wealthy family, and I don't think she is going to leave him for money, because she is a very humble person, so we have to learn these contrasts in life because money is not everything, being healthy. , life, family, are great treasures that they often have and do not value.
with the story you said, it indicates that money can change everything, in fact I think we have or have certainly found people who are very sensitive to money, whether they are stingy or change drastically when they have money, in my opinion that is something that It's natural because humans definitely have their own sense of selfishness and also the greed they definitely have, not wanting to share or being stingy can happen. Never mind getting a win at gambling, basically when they see something better then they might be interested in doing it and leaving the old thing behind. This is like the story you said, when the woman saw something else that was more reliable or maybe she thought it was good, so the woman left her partner who had been with her for 23 years, the old relationship changed and was destroyed because of the woman's greed and selfishness which did not can be controlled, I want to give advice but it seems like your friend can also improve. now I just hope the best for your friend and also for you.
I agree with you, indeed money can buy everything but not everything is about money. Of course, the most valuable asset is family, because when family relationships are destroyed due to problems that may indeed cause heartache for every family member, it will likely be difficult to rebuild the relationship for the better. Therefore, we must be able to prioritize family, maintain good relationships, and put aside selfishness, especially with rich people who tend to always fight over inheritance and this can sometimes lead to conflict. If we can put aside ego and greed, maybe everything will be under control.