Everyone of us has a secret and there are a lot reason why we hide it but in gambling it's better to show all we got than hiding some of this problems. Cause it will affect more in our life once we are hiding something in our family and it will make more crucial if they will know late than their expected. Anyways it's up to us if we gonna tell our family or keep it hiding until they found out cause there's no secret that can not be revealed.
I think there mustn’t be any reason if one decides to be private with his gambling activities. There is only going to be a problem if one decides to be irresponsible with his gambling actions and that in turn could have a negative effects on his life and others.
But a person who gambles responsibly could have a healthy gambling lifestyle and could also be private as well. People are quick to say stupid things and literally judge someone without knowing anything. Keeping up it activities private could also bring one peace and rest of mind from judging eyes.
One of the advantages of online gambling is privacy so it is not wrong as you have noted to keep our gambling private. I am an introvert and I feel so relaxed and comfortable when I gamble online because nobody knows when I win or lose and even the amount I use in gambling. One thing I dislike about offline gambling is that your stake is open to others to see and it is wrong for people to know how much a gambler uses to gamble. This can get people talking about the gambler and his privacy will be in the mud.
I remember when I was still gambling offline. Sometimes, before I got to the house my mom would get information that I was gambling and then she would frown at me when I got home and other times she would call me on the phone telling me to leave the betting shop. My mom hated gambling because my dad was a reckless gambler and so she didn’t want me following my dad`s footsteps.
Like you, in truth, no one knows that I gamble, and if anyone does, it's only my husband and no one else, and what he knows is that I rarely gamble. And what you said is also true: that the only beauty of online gambling is that, as a gambler, you or we are private gamblers that only we really know.
It's different from the physical gambling that many people see and then usually still hustle. So online gambling is pretty convenient, as long as we don't become addicted to gaming, because there is nothing good about having an addiction here.
As long you are on such moderation then it would really be just that fine and it would really be tha a simple approach or reaction on which your husband would really be having in telling that you've been doing gambling.If its that just inside the family when it comes to information in regarding about these activities then it would be normal that there would really be those kind of reactions but since
you are really that in still on the control then i dont see any problems to it. As for hiding yourself into other peoples awareness in regarding about your gambling habit then it would be normal
because we do know and seen on how this community do sees about negative towards gambling activity.