Though it almost got me díscouraged, however instead of being discouraged, I'm open to learning ways or how to get the Merits and grow on here, my questions are what I'm i doing wrongly? How can i improve it and also where is the best board to write on if i need these Merits coming?
You are not doing the wrong thing. Merits serve as encouragement to every forum members that wants to grow in the forum, and merit will signify that you are a good and quality poster and not shitposter.
Looking for merits desperately is bad because it can lead you to copy and paste which is refers to as plagiarism; because when you are desperate, you will tend to copy people quality posts from internet and decided to share it here just for merits which is very bad as a beginner.
If you wants to grow in this forum, you need merits, but you can take it step by step through been active user and sharing your contributions and ideas in any reasonable discussion in the forum.