I've been advised that as a newbie i shouldn't rush but to learn from old forum members and grow. But then, I've seen that for one to grow over here you need to get merited and on a regular basis, well i believe at this point i should've been able to acquire some merits, despite the fact that I'm still a Newbie but then i don't see the Merits coming, even after some post i felt could fetch the Merits. It makes me wonder if my posts are not Merit worthy or Quality enough.
Though it almost got me díscouraged, however instead of being discouraged, I'm open to learning ways or how to get the Merits and grow on here, my questions are what I'm i doing wrongly? How can i improve it and also where is the best board to write on if i need these Merits coming?
You need to understand that getting merited in this community is competitive now not like before that you could write some couples of rubbish and start getting merits even when your posts do not worth it. That phase has gone because we have more newbies here than the old members. This is competitive and you will need to keep writing good posts for you to get merits.
I don't know why it looks like you are too much in a haste, you will need to calm down and do the right thing for you to keep getting merits from other serious forum members. You don't expect to write something that has been frequently seen in the forum and expect to get merits. It won't happen unless you do the extra ordinary thing.