Self management and self discipline matters a lot for a man with his family, so that he can use his cash inflow properly by assigning only little amount of his monthly income on gamble. This is why as a family man, you need to put your family first before your own personal expenses to avoid problems.
Gambling should be done with caution to avoid overdoing it, so that it does not have side effect on you and your family, which will lead to divorce because of addiction. One should only use the amount of money that he can afford to lose, so that it will not affect him emotionally, to the extend of using all the money in the house for gambling because he is busy chasing his losses.
I agree with that, family is indeed an important thing in life, of course if we already have a family we must be able to prioritize family. when we have income, of course we have to be able to prioritize family and basic needs, and after that, only our own needs, such as wanting to buy what we want or gambling, many families divorce because of financial problems where the head of the family only prioritizes gambling, and that's Of course it is a problem, if we are married but always prioritize gambling then the destruction of the relationship will be at stake.
That's right, gambling should be done in moderation, not overdone. Balancing ourselves with our preferences is important, if we really like gambling then we must be able to balance our preferences with our needs, be able to differentiate between what is important and what is not so important. Don't let us gamble excessively, such as using large amounts of money just for gambling but don't think about our needs.