I already suspected that sooner or later this would happen. @pytagoraz, you told me that everything would be fine, it was your fault.
I'm so sorry, I'll try to explain to them. I sent you a message, please reply. Sorry because you must be very angry with me
Or maybe wait till you meet him again at the coffee shop?
I suggest you read about Dissociative identity disorder, it's when someone has two or more distinct personalities, the peak of it is when those personalities start to communicate with one another.
My humble advice -- stop trying to defend yourself, even if you (or both of you) were actually innocent, there is nothing you can say or do to undo what has been done, you will probably start a new account or use one of the "unfound" accounts to start climbing a ladder again, might as well just save the efforts and start now.