I, personally would rather pick and choose who I paid (much like I do when shipping goods) but outside of satisfying personal preference, I don't think there would be a large difference in most people's wealth.
That's like saying that if a woman is raped or she falls in love and has consensual sex, there's no difference in how pregnant she'll get.
Can you elaborate? What you stated is completely true...there is no difference how pregnant she would be. Also not sure how that ties into what I was saying.