I, personally would rather pick and choose who I paid (much like I do when shipping goods) but outside of satisfying personal preference, I don't think there would be a large difference in most people's wealth.
That's like saying that if a woman is raped or she falls in love and has consensual sex, there's no difference in how pregnant she'll get.
Wheal she is pregnant regardless of the way she got there. You can't be half pregnant.
The difference is what preceded the sexual act which preceded the pregnancy . Physical Violence.
Those that come after Violence is irrelevant at least to me. It's not worst to be raped than being forced to sign something or to take a pill .
You really need to get out more. There is the world of difference between forcing a child to take an aspirin and raping him.