Well because in fact, if you are just keeping it to yourself, and lose money, your behavior would change, your loveones would ask you what's happening in your life and you won't tell anything about gambling. You are basically lying to them and that will be an endless loop until you confess to them what you are dealing with. Carrying that burden would only make your life harder. Because you won't be getting the support or understanding that you need from your family. Regardless if what they have for you is a support or neglect, you must still have to tell them. That's too heavy to carry. So talk things to the people who are important to you. Live your life and don't let gambling take it from you.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them.
Each person has and does their part, normally the things that people keep secret because each person knows what they do and is respected, but in general things are usually very different, now if the activity gets out of control and the person begins to do bad things such as gambling a lot, becoming decapitalized, not having money because everything is spent on money, I think things are worse because generally one of the things that is done is to avoid by all means the appearance of an addiction, the addiction can appear in silent mode, that is why when we play we must know how we are going to concentrate, how we are going to do so that things can be different and we do not fall into temptations, when things are kept secret and it is very easy to make mistakes and Keeping those things to yourself, causing the errors to increase, that is the only thing you should avoid, because in silence you can also become addicted and no one would know until it is very obvious.
When you are already on the state of addiction then you would really be that ending up on doing things on which not a well minded being would really be doing like spending up tons of money, even getting some loans or trying out to steal or whatever those things that could make you do that you havent done before. On the time that addiction would really be consuming you out then
those behaviors and acts would really be coming out. If you have tending to keep it as a secret but in regarding with your actions which it turns out to be obvious then you cant really be able to hide it up even into your own family members on which it would really be something that would determining out that you are already addicted to it. There are really just those people who are really that having that too observant eyes around on where if they've seen something odd then expect that there's something those words or comments that they would really be giving out. It is really just that there
are people who are really that too judgmental on things on which there's nothing we can do about it.