While they sure had their own share of problems, I really think that if the amount of money is high enough, that can be more than enough to ruin a good relationship, after all if a person fund out that their partner wanted to keep all of that money for themselves and not share anything with them, then they have the right to be mad about it, however on this particular case it is going to be an uphill battle for the boyfriend as it seems that legally that money belongs only to her.
I have asked several friends about this, and they tell me no, that they will never prefer money to their partners, but it is one thing to say it and another very different thing is to be there and see how things are, some women They don't think about it, at least where I live many want to find older people so that they don't work or anything, of course they are few, but there are some, so this is something that can be very different and according to the training that has been given to a person in particular, it changes, because there are women who are actually very valuable and have many good things, and those women who are like that are quite difficult to get, so that's why I say in life Finding a Partner is a lottery, It is not known what they may date as time Goes by , the cases can be very Different when they are considered in terms of a couple, in the case of OP I think that there is no love and there Never was love.