so first off, you know your husband better than any one else and you are obviously in the best position to tell what his reaction will look like if he finds out you're into gambling. I know quite a handful of ladies that gambles and it doesn't even show in their life and the way they go about doing things. As long as you know you can manage your emotion and wouldn't allow it comes to the stage where you will start to mismanage the resources that's in your desposition for house hold management, then it doesn't make a difference if you gamble or not. But the only issue that's worth taking into account is that if you have children that are quite young, you might need to ensure you don't expose them to gambling at an early age so it doesnt affect them negatively so you would want to ensure you've fixed that right before getting started.