Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.
If you're too proud of yourself, delightful and relaxed without being bothered on how to ease your responsibilities within your home when you've the capacities to lucrate everyones minds by introducing them or encouraging them on how they can also breakthrough their financial reliances, you'd either end up struggling to have more values to your finances or your relentness engagement on always being the provider could picture you as one of a kind who have the potential to elevate others but chooses to let everyone settled beneath your foots which can actually inspire some negative thoughts on people envying your success.
Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.
I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.
what things will satisfy this world I don't understand. I mean I don't disagree with even a single word of yours but this world expect too much especially from a men. Our lives pass in thinking for other and that's the most stressful thing for me. We should provide them with basic necessities of life but later on they should do things on their own.
It's my personal opinion and you could differ in that but I think ones life is too short for all these type of affairs and he/she should only be responsible for the basic necessities until the maturity age only. After that siblings must do things on their own to survive and try their own luck.