Just like in my neighborhood, I saw a couple whose wives already knew their husbands liked to gamble, and the husband was always honest that he would gamble.
Rather than being banned, his wife gave some money to gamble and there would be no extra money.
That way there are no lies or addictions and spending on gambling can be controlled.
Your neighbours are very lucky. It is not every man that has a great relationship with their spouse. Situations like are possible where the husband and wife have a good understanding and love eachother. They help, support and lookout for eachother. In gambling it is no different. We know that it is not all about playing slots, roullete and other casino games. Some spouse may also want to start a social media page on gambling, write a book about gambling and what have you. A supportive spouse makes everything easy.