Is not always good for an able man to depend on family member. If you come from an affluent family then leverage on their connections to stand on your own as is always good to know how to kill a fish than to be handed over to you. If your affluent family decided not to help you then help yourself to survive as there is dignity in it, thats where respect comes from.
A man that's lazy and depended on family will have no single regards from his family members and most of them ensure to make good use of insults towards the mature ones without good paying jobs. I rather choose to be working with good paying than relaxd in just a spot. Independent man brings a whole lot of respect from the family and if you check well, any man that's Independent is always hardworking and will always brings food to the table.