A friend of mine goes wild at me whenever I talk to him about his reckless spendings, he ask me what would be accounted of his money if not enjoyments?
This is a kind of guy that feels relaxed when he has an attractive amount of money in his bank account and then feels he is only supposed to go after making more money only when he is running out from the one already accumulated and spent.
I think it's natural and possible that at that time your friend still has the upper hand in terms of finances and does not want to be disturbed by anyone, including you, plus your questions that are limiting for him.
And after squandering all that he has saved he goes about requesting to borrow money.
I have talked to this guy on several occasions but he feels I am a pest disturbing his dear life..
Everyone will be aware when it comes with the pressure of needs that are increasing day by day, especially when we have a family. Someone who used to live an all-round life when the decline may be very unprepared to run it. The increase in personal debt automatically occurs at various points, once or twice it is possible that someone comes to help, but if many times come with the same condition it may no longer be true and the saying goes if remember we are safe.