Rule of thumb (my personal observation): if you see Monero on some exchange, this exchange will NEVER ask KYC.
ToS/AML/KYC pages are just for the state authorities to simulate compliance and not for end users.
You have a point and that's how it should normally be but in reality, that isn't the case with most platforms that also offer Monero exchanges
[I've seen enough cases to no longer be optimistic (especially with the majority of the so-called instant/fast exchanges)].