But one more question can i buy bitcoin here on the forum with my sepa bank account or credit card? or is that not safe maybe? i ask because here i dont see any KYC
I don't know if you can purchase through your sepa bank. But you can purchase bitcoin from this forum. I think the below answer will help you.
Brings us to marketplaces like on this forum itself:
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?board=53.0 Pretty sure some traders would accept if you pay first. Given you don't have a reputation here or anywhere else, you'd need to find someone trusted or reputable so you feel safe sending first. Be prepared to face unfavourable terms, as you're an unknown entity.