...He was the person who was truly valuing privacy and I believe he wouldn't reveal such a sensitive information if it was actually true.
... I didn't really want to upset anyone but I can't do anything with this thought and I wanted to be absolutely honest.
I like you being blunt and being yourself here with your opinion. Some people might have conceived what you are saying about o_e_l_e_o but decided to keep it to themselves in order not to raise some drama. But you let it out.
...He was the person who was truly valuing privacy and I believe he wouldn't reveal such a sensitive information if it was actually true.
I also thought about this, but reason this from another angle. How about if o_e_l_e_o was too sure he's gonna die, which is exactly what his farewell message said. What will be the essence of remaining private to death. Think it that he hinted us for 2 reasons;
- He loved us
- He's dying, why remain so private?