BTC uses a public ledger, but it is very easy to stay anonymous from 'ordinary' people without even using privacy solutions, yeah they can see your tx's on the blockchain, but they cannot link it to your real identity. Now if you are hiding from more powerful authorities that can get information from centralized services, you can use privacy solutions like mixers and CoinJoin and avoid centralized services.

I must admit that i don't know much about your project, but i am sure your coin currently has no value and little to nobody is using it for the purpose you say it was created. So maybe you should be humble enough not to compare your project with what BTC offers and wait until it becomes a success. Goodluck however.