What I'm tryna say is, your statement here about robbing shoulders seems too sentimental or discriminating.
Hold on brother, before you start saying things i wasn't thinking of. What I'm trying to say is that newbies most times, in other to get recognized by high ranked members in a particular thread make replies that do not really align with the topic at hand and they tend to miss out on being themselves, I'm not looking down on anybody. This place is a social space and we're all anonymous and it doesn't matter if you're fishing for merit, attention or whatever it is to grow, what is most important and appreciated is originality.