People's financial situation is not always the same as we have enough money now but in the future we may not have enough money to spend. Now we have enough money so now I will go out of my way to spend money as I want for no reason then later when I don't have enough to spend but no one else will give me money to spend. It is a fact that as long as you have money and as long as you spend money behind others people will speak for you and people will be with you but if one day you want to walk with them without spending money then you will find no one to walk with. Since money brings people closer and money drives people away, money should be given the most importance.
The amount of money that we are earning now is divided into several parts and the remaining money is the money but if we want we can invest or save so that if there is a financial crisis in the future but this saved money will support us well.
We must be careful about money, if you are careful about money then there is no problem if people call you stingy because some people's job is to say bad things about others.
True, no one will value you if you don’t have money even your family will never value you if you don’t have money, people will care about you when you have money and get close to you just for them to get something for themselves but immediately when they found out that you don’t have money again or just let them know that you are about to begin broke or your source income is not coming like before they will run away and leave you to suffer alone before you begin to treat people and show them make show you learn how to save money that in the future you will still have money that you can spend on yourself, I don’t know but for I usually spend on my family than spending for outsiders.
Spending on your family is better than spending on people who are not even related to you because no matter how hard it is for you there are some people in your family who will never forget about you, being rich today and in the future you are poor is the most painful thing in life because people who you always treated as a friend will not be there for you, money is the root of evil as people said but we have to also be careful and make a good save in the future because no one knows tomorrow, so advice is to learn how to save money and use it for a better things that you will have a profit at the end.
It is true that if we don't have money then no one will respect or care about us, but that doesn't mean we should try to make money just to get their respect or attention. We make money to take care of our future and family, not for prestige or just so people recognize us.
I don't see any reason for us to spend money on people outside our family unless it's related to relationships that benefit our work. We need to realize that no one is better than our loved ones, every external relationship is about money, so spend it in moderation and don't waste it unnecessarily.
To me, saving is something that should be done and should not be lacking in anyone's life, but we should not focus too much on it but instead should find ways to increase our income.