as human beings, we have a responsibility to help our brothers or relatives who are really in trouble and need motivation, especially in difficult economic times like now, we have to listen patiently and also provide wise encouragement to those who are having difficulties or are facing problems. get back up and enthusiastic about carrying out their activities. just giving wise advice can sometimes help someone who is in trouble with a glimmer of hope.
We do not really have a responsibility like that. I get that we are going to end up with something that will feel not so great which is fine and understandable but that doesn't mean that we have to do it, even it feels like you want to, if you are not capable of doing that, then you shouldn't. I had a lot of periods in my life, when I had absolutely nothing, so I couldn't help someone I cared about, and when I had the money, I still didn't help many people in my life.
Only people I am willing to help, is my wife and my parents, that's it, three people, nobody else gets my attention, obviously I have no brothers or sisters, if they existed then maybe them, but even they would be questionable, whereas my wife and parents gets my help for sure, nobody else.
That will depend on them. Although they are our relatives, but they are lazy and do not treat us well, so there is no reason for us to spend time and money to help them. Furthermore, while we ourselves cannot even take good care of our own wives, children and parents, how can we help others? It is not our responsibility to take care of others while we cannot take care of those closest to us.
I am not against helping others, especially our relatives, but we should help the right people, at the right time and with calculation because sometimes that help will harm them.