All parents hope for a good future for their children but if the children do not want to understand it then the parents will have nothing to do, it depends on the children what they want to do. Parents try hard to make their children responsible. Many parents start investing right after their child is born to make them financially self-sufficient. It will take a lot of time a parent is responsible for making the child worthy of care and love.
From the start of marriage, both partners must commit to providing teachings, love and knowledge to their children in the future (investment is not just about money) because if you are tired of taking care of your children then you have failed, you are not worthy of marriage. but again, not all children are lucky to get good and wise parents and also not all parents are lucky to get children who are obedient and understanding, the point is to remain patient when taking care of children, don't let your children stand and walk without direction, you must direct and help them until they become independent in the future
Yeah it's very important for parents to take care of their childrens on their own. People nowadays leave their childrens completely in the hands of school teachers. They don't bother what they are teaching and what their childrens s are learning from it.
Every teacher is also a human and he/she has a psychology so don't allow them to create a space for you children to fall into. Try to be more regular with asking your children's what they are being taught in schools.