Thank you for the help guys I really appreciate it

Im going to have to do the same process again but this time for a bigger transaction

How big does the transaction fee need to be if the transaction is approximately 50mbtc ($5000 usd)?

I really don't understand this bitcoin mempool stuff but I see that I have some post history on my account dating back to 2017 where I was begging for some help speeding up some transactions, so maybe its just a normal thing

I need this btc as real money this month as im using it towards part of a car payment and my mums covering it with her credit card for now, but her credit card has 25% interest if she doesen't pay it back within a month, so i need the transaction to not get stuck in limbo

3 days overall is slow but its not terrible.  It only went through after you guys did that submit to thing linked above

Thanks again for all the help