Maybe part of the problem is that you are not even attempting to engage with me?  I gave my off-the-cuff opinion based on whatever information that I had, and I did not claim to understand the thread, especially the technical angle.. but I do see that you have some difficulties conceptually separating substance from your desires to get emotional regarding things that you say and the tone that members might come back at you.  There are some needs for a thick skin, and there is a difference between personal attacks without substance and personal attacks that might be weaved with substance that may well be attacking you for your ideas or your presentation of those ideas rather than attacking you as a person.