im trying rbf with electrum
and I did not see stuck transition in electrum wallet transactions list
Maybe, you chose the wrong script type when connecting your hardware wallet to electrum.
Your wallet is nested segwit and you should choose "p2sh-segwit (p2wpkh-p2sh). Did you choose that?
The reason why you can't see the unconfirmed transaction is, most likely, because it has been dropped from the mempool of the server Electrum connects to. You can fix this by trying to connect to different servers (from Network Settings).
Almost all nodes should have OP's transaction in their mempool. The transaction in question was broadcasted only 1 week ago and its fee rate is higher than the purging fee rate.
I guess OP hasn't connected the hardware wallet to electrum correctly.