In my opinion, when our expectations do not match reality, that is when we will feel two mistakes. First, namely, hoping for something that is too impossible or also placing hope on those who are unable to make it happen. And this second one can be one of the main causes of losing hope, namely entrusting our lives to other humans. Facing a reality that does not match our expectations can be quite difficult for us. You must feel sad, disappointed and tired. At times like this we need to get back up and strengthen ourselves.
With an incident like that, we won't be able to change it again, right? Indeed, that is a big mistake, because getting pregnant is not legal for a man and a woman. At first it must be difficult to accept it all. Therefore we need to learn to accept reality as it is. Before we look for the reasons and causes why, we also need to accept the situation first as it is.
Because mistakes themselves are actions/decisions that do not match our expectations. Mistakes are often opportunities to learn to be better than before. We can improve ourselves based on the experience we gain from the incident. Mistakes are a very natural part of our lives. We all make mistakes at various stages of our lives today. It is important to accept mistakes as a process of learning and use these experiences to improve our quality. With reflection and self-awareness. We can also avoid making the same mistakes in the future/future and be better at facing challenges in our lives.
that's my opinion, sorry if there are mistakes and don't agree with you