Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Anything you have to keep secret in a relationship is going to do harm over the long term. I understand that it is frowned upon for different reasons in some countries or cultures, but anywhere it is legal should not bring feelings of shame upon someone if they are doing it responsibly. If you're throwing 20 bucks a week on it as a form of entertainment and have it under control, then it is very similar to other forms of entertainment - some people pay to watch people in the theater, donate to their favorite online streamers or buy loot boxes in games. It's when you start going too deep down the rabbit hole and throwing away lots of money, even money that you have not solely earned, then it starts to enter much murkier territory.