Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
Two things are involved. One is, did your husband understand how gambling works or not? The school question is: even if he doesn’t view gambling in a positive manner, if he wishes to start gambling, will he be able to control his emotions and finances? If you get these two answers, you are covered by the case study.
I don’t see why you shouldn’t speak up on your concerns in a marriage, it’s a marriage, you both are in it and should it matter to you, you get yo discuss it as a family. I’m sure he would understand it isn’t about selfish interest but, for the common good of both and the rest of the family. Habit on the rise, you discuss how to archive control.
When it comes to marriage, husband and wife needs to openness in anything so there will be no misunderstand especially if one of them wants to playing gambling. However, they know that gambling can makes them lose everything they have even their marriage gets the risks too. If one of them can't control their emotions and finances, that will makes them lose the money and that can triggers to gets more problem than just losing their money.
When someone often playing gambling and finally marriage, he needs to reduce his gambling activity because he doesn't lived alone but he has partner and they needs to sit together and discuss many things including about gambling. They can't lie to their partner because of their habit because that can impact to their marriage and even their life can gets the risks. It's worth to discuss to our partner so they can gives suggestion to us because we are not lived with our partner.