Honestly, when giving advice to others, it seems a lot easier than when we're in the situation and dealing with it ourselves. I feel the difficulties you are facing and the things you want to ask everyone, and I can only say that only you can solve your problems. Only you know what situation you are in, what difficulties and challenges you are facing. And even if you can't save yourself, don't expect someone to help you because they haven't even been through what you've been through or they can only give general advice that you already know clearly and don't want to hear it again.
Try to get through it all on your own and maybe you should ask for advice from relatives rather than strangers like us because relatives understand you better than us.
That's true, sometimes many people give advice but they don't do it themselves. but I think not everyone is like that, maybe with the advice they give but their own situation does not reflect the advice, maybe they learn from experiences that have happened with those who don't take advantage of their opportunities well, so they think that if they had previously done it like this then the situation they won't be as bad as they are now. You can get advice from anywhere, but it's true that what you said can solve the problems that occur is yourself, so it depends on us too.
Even though other people have experienced what is happening to us, it is not certain that they will be able to provide assistance that will clearly help, moreover I don't think it will help completely until it solves all the problems that occur. Look at yourself, we have to be able to live on our own two feet, looking for solutions must be done in our own way, suggestions and advice from other people do not determine the resolution of the problem.