Always have RBF enabled or use software that support RBF by default. If, for some reason, you are forced to send a transaction to some service without the RBF on, then make sure you pay a high enough fee to have the transaction confirm in a reasonable timeframe. If you don't want to check on the fees manually, use Mempool.Space's medium or high priority recommendations. It's too late now, but you paid for the acceleration much more than what you would have if you had followed the instructions that nc50lc and LoyceV provided.