I don't agree that we should spend our money and our whole life for our children in the hope that they can be our investment in the future. Because I think children will have their own lives and we will not always be with our children. But I agree that time is a valuable asset for us to give to our children. Children will see their life from how they get it from their parents. IMO parents should be able to be role models for their children. Parents should teach morals and life values and as much as possible parents should have time with their children to play and learn.
Playing and learning with our own children also has a time limit and we must also be able to set it ourselves so that our children see how we manage time in life and how we apply discipline in learning new things that are more important. In addition, what we show our children is also a lesson in life because they can digest through their own minds that in life we must be independent and not too dependent on others including their own parents in anything. Because children who are educated in a way that is not spoiled will find it easier to mix with their environment and will also find it easier to develop their own thinking as a result of not expecting everything from their parents or those closest to them.