That's right, the main point is that as a gambler it is mandatory for us to have the ability to accept the risk of losing, because as you said that no matter what we will never be able to completely avoid what is called defeat, defeat is part of the game, so one of the keys to being able to avoid emotions that can trigger various aggressive actions, then clearly risk acceptance must be prioritized or must be owned by a gambler.
Don't let us become a loser who only wants to win but is not ready to experience defeat. On the other hand, as you suggest, gambling must be done with great care, which of course is very important so that every action and decision can be measured or the intention is not beyond our capabilities. Caution can perhaps be called the key to long-term safety
Losing will be stressful for a player who doesn't acknowledge lit while gambling. Gambling losses should be admitted in the minds of all players. It's fine to assume nobody would be happy to lose money. But, since they can't help with the losses, it's nothing to be sad about. Staying angry over gambling losses means that a gambler has not advanced in his gambling experience. Being cautious is an excellent practice; at least, players should detect when they feel bad about their gambling losses. Then stop immediately.