Thanks for the replies guys, i expected more but I think im okay with the ones I've got so far mostly with the links, I did as instructed as by _act_ but the rules are very bulky, i think I've got lots of reading to do, so I'll take my time to study and memorise them after now.
Wow are there critics here! That's not fair and could discourage newly registered like me or give us wrong perspective of this forum, I hope there are no tolerance of voilence or abusive words here? Well the best approach to critics is to capture the sense in their statement and disregard the rest. Also, what are the consequences of going against the rules?
You only got three responses and concluded the critics? Friend, if you are so vulnerable that you sense insult in the posts, then I can predetermine your future fate here. Besides, criticism is always an indicator that people here are real and will not pretend or be afraid to speak if they see something insincere. You are not the first and not the last. Just learn the rule; you came to the forum, which means you are interested in it, and not the other way around. Therefore, if you do not hear criticism but only hurt yourself, you will be disappointed. Anything that many wish you and advise will be a good greeting, but in addition, put on thick skin so as not to react too emotionally.