I haven't married yet. but my parents' were affected by this "bad economic" in their marriage. Economy is the main reason of divorce in my country, seeing this fact, I'm a bit scared for my own sake and my future children if one day I got married with someone. For now, I'm kinda grateful for I am not married yet so i could get prepared for my own economy situation first before I decided to get serious in a relationship to prevent any unwanted problem in a marriage which cause by economy.
Even thinking about the responsiblity, marriage expenses and child expenses are giving me goosebumps somehow, I'm afraid if I'm failed to provide them.
If you are not getting married because you fear that you will not be able to provide for your wife and children after marriage, then this thinking is wrong. Marriage is a relationship in which real life is recognized. There is a blessing in marriage, which causes an increase in a person sustenance. It is a rare relationship in which life takes a new direction with love and understanding. Most people experience is that after marriage their livelihood increased and life became blessed and peaceful. So do not look at marriage with fear or worry but as the beginning of a new life.
What you said is very heartwarming, buddy. Yes, I'm scared of it, but I didn't say that I don't want to. That's why it will take a longer time for me to get prepared until I'm ready.
I will put in mind what on your words. Thanks a lot. It just what I have experienced give me a lot to think and a lot to put into consideration before I finally chooses someone to get married.