Why people would really be that rushing up themselves on getting married? This isnt really that something that would really be that easily be making up such decision considering that you would really be looking for someone whom you would be with for the rest of your life. This is why you wont really be needing up to rush yourself because if you would then it might bring up that forever regret you would really be having in life
specially when you do get married on someone whom you dont like or something that talks about getting forced or something related to it. As for preparations on marriage life then it would really be that understandable
that you would really be needing up to have that kind of plans specially on finances. Make yourself that financially prepared since you are building your own family and as a husband or father to be then
tons of responsibilities on which you would really be needing up to provide.
Deciding to get married is certainly not an easy thing and we must be able to accept the shortcomings of our partner and must be able to complement each other in various ways and if one of the partners does not trust each other then it will be very difficult to last long and I agree with you we do not need to rush in this matter, we must choose a partner who can accept all the shortcomings that we have and we must also be able to accept the shortcomings of our partner and always complement each other, before deciding to get married of course we must have a good income in order to meet the needs of our family later, because for now it is not uncommon for us to see those who choose to separate because what their partner needs is not met.
This is why it would really be that important that you should really be that prepared or else then you would really be experiencing that hardship into your marriage life. This is why preparations
would really be that relevant and something that you must need to be done because having no preparation would really be might lead into some financial arguments later on specially
if your wife and children cant take anymore the bad experience that they are really having along side with you as the head of the family.
If a couple supports each other, of course this will make it easier for them to solve every problem they face, therefore every couple who wants to get married must first ask their partner whether they are ready to accept all the shortcomings they have because everyone certainly has their own shortcomings and advantages, because if they cannot accept their partner's shortcomings, of course their marriage will not last long because there will always be problems in their relationship.