Many gamblers lack risks in everyday life so they consciously increase risks in gambling. After all, such behavior carries not only risks but also increases the possible winnings. Naturally, overestimated risks very often lead to large losses resulting in feelings of guilt, depression, etc. This is not only subject to obsessive or gambling addicted players, because overestimate the risks can any gambler who lost control during the gambling session.
And it shouldn't be that way, of course. We should all strive to never lose ourselves during what is supposed to bring us joy and entertainment, rather than what you described.
I think the cause or trigger that causes the problem is always me because a gambler who from the beginning is wrong in responding to gambling, most of them do not know about the concept of gambling actually, "chance of winning" is always their main focus so that awareness of risk is ignored. As you said that the activity should bring joy, but what happens as we see that not a few or even the majority of gamblers actually experience significant tension and anxiety because what they expect is victory, meaning that pleasure or joy is likely to only be felt if from the start the gamblers are aware of the dangers of the risks that lurk and also when the gamblers realize that defeat is a natural part of the game.
If you are really just that noob then you would really be that definitely be having those common impressions that you could really be that easily be able to make yourself make money or profits with gambling
and this is where it would really be that making you desperate on the time that you would really be doing up such thing and on the time that you would really be able to have those kind of assumptions and perceptions
towards things then this is where you would really be putting up yourself on such big trouble. This is why it would really be best that you should really know at least on what you would gonna do and this is why it would really be better that on the moment that you would really be dealing up with gambling then make it sure that you wont really be having those kind of intents and perceptions.
When it comes on changing mood then of course this would really be that so common on which we know that it could really be that resulted due to that losing money on which its really that common
when it comes into this aspect.This is why on the moment that you do play gambling then you should really be having that kind of approacn or reaction on things that
you should really be that expecting about on great disadvantages and this is where it would be causing for you to lose, so that you wont really be expecting something positive.