I don't know if I understand your question very well. I mean the body of the text. However from the topic a lack of confidence could be one of the reasons for this type of feelings, also consistent losses is another reason, and other. I would suggest that when you are feeling down you could watch some trading videos of successful traders who are teaching about trading psychology, you could also listen to podcasts, read a book and another option you may do is to take some break.
It's puzzling to me how some people start a thread, make a post, and then never return. I've read through it, and I still can't grasp what the OP was trying to say. Surprisingly, the thread has grown to four pages of responses. I can't understand how people managed to keep the conversation going and generate such lengthy discussions.