Sorry to hear that, yeah we need to prepare for the worst.
We live in the present, not in the past, and no guarantee to live in the future. So enjoy what you're doing now.
No, I don't trust even myself. Wife ? you're talking about the most abused contract in history that destroyed so many men ?
Correct.
Why women fall in love? because the men have money.
Why men fall in love? because the women are physically attractive.
How to accumulate money? by working hard.
How to be physically attractive? by having money.
Many women nowadays are using men as their stepping stone.
If people want to inherit their assets, they should have prepared a last will and testament to give it to their child.