Yes, everyone needs to work hard to achieve what we want, and everything must go through a process, by looking at the development of coins that have potential for now, that is the path we must take, by continuing to think positively everything will be easier.
It is in our nature to crave for a lot of good stuffs and at the same time, many are still lazy. Some can only get lucky to have a good wealth, so it is still possible for them to get what they are craving for. Those who do and trust the process are usually the ones who can think negatively but I guess this is because what they do is taxing. I think it is fine but as long as the work is still there, they will still be close to their destination.
We should do it self-responsibly as well because if you lose yourself in the potential at hand, it will end pretty badly quickly.
If it is our capital is the ones that we are risking, yeah that the responsibility is only on us. I say that because there are also people who only provide capital to someone else and that person is only the ones who will do the work. Losing a potential is very tragic but on some good coins that we have, the potential can still be there and can come back eventually, so we might as well not conclude that we have a pretty bad run.