When you find yourself in a new place what's required of you is first find the rules and regulations guarding the place after that try as much as possible to adhere to the rules hence you wouldn't be complaining of your post getting deleted or merged.
Perhaps if you have some post most likely related it will for sure be merged if mods finds it convincing to merge.
Getting this message that your post has been deleted is just reminder that you should try to post constructively and act according to rules in each thread and anyone can be moderated regardless of the rank once you violate the rules you will get moderated.
Separate responses to different people should not be merged into one post unless the poster wants to do that.
I've been posting on bitcointalk for more than ten years under various usernames, and most interference by moderators is not about improving anything.
you should consider adhering to the pattern which the mods wants every post.
Don't you think? it doesn't make any sense having only you commenting on a post several times? looking at the above response which you can probably make in just a post you prefer making 10 post to 10 different people in one thread.
Personally if I was a mod I will do same because it's against the ethics of the forum.