Re: How to self exclude from anonymous gambling sites

It is possible that i`m just far away from offline gambling and in online it is difficult enough to get some information about their problems or hobbies. So there are just two men with gambling problems who i know in real life. May be if i`ll become visit offline casinos, i`ll see more such addicts, but i don`t want it.

Oh, yes, prioritizing online gambling over offline gambling will not make you meet many physical people not to mention of knowing what is going on in their gambling life. Even if you did not meet them in person, if such gambling outlets are close to you, you will see some neighbours gambling, and from there you might be able to see for yourself and hear a few about their gambling lifestyle either from them or from people. From there as well, you might get to know what people are facing about gambling, especially those who are not using their common sense to do the right thing and be responsible in gambling.

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About the first man. If i can believe him, he stopped only when lost his wife. Before it nothing could stop him. I know that several his friends include me talked with him about his problems with gambling, but it wasn`t interesting for him. And even when he divorced - he understood it later, about several weeks. Only after it he rebooted his life. I told it to show that it is difficult to help someone, who don`t see the problem. He need to get some sign to undestand it.

Oh, I see, the wife was forced to leave him due to his irresponsible gambling life? That is so possible, especially if the guy did not show concern for his family, particularly in the financial aspect of it. And yes, people may be tough to help when they are facing gambling issues, it is not until they are also willing to be helped that it will be easy for them. Can you see this guy, he learned his lesson the hard way, I don't just know why people will be wasting their lives away just to gamble. Why not moderate it?

There are no offline casinos in my city. Only several illegal. But everybody knows about it

I see him sometimes, but can`t say that it is my friend. I don`t ask him about his life before, but today he is ok. Has small business, a girlfriend, send some money to his son. And he doesn`t want even to play computer games. So, i think it was serious lesson for him.
I don`t know why someone spend so much time for gambling. I`m in sport betting, sometimes poker - it is enough.

The excitement that will make someone spend so much time for gambling and forget of what he must do for his life. Maybe he has his own reason why he choose gambling than to do many things that will benefit his life and not getting addicted to gambling. But everything is happen and without he realizes about his matters in gambling, he will not start to fix and may get deeper in gambling. The more you gambling, the more you become a heavy gambling addiction and that will makes you lose everything you have.

But he finally can see the change in his life and start a new life. But if he doesn't realize what is happen to his life, he will still in the gambling without anyone can drag him get out from gambling. Only those people who can see the problem, realize it and want to solve it because that affect to his life will have a chance to change his life.

Frustration can make someone to be a gambling addict especially when being in a circumstances that looks like nobody cares.
We can compare this situation to drinking excessively because of having a bad time which can be a result of losing someone close to us, job, or contract. We cannot conclude what could be the problem but sometimes we don't have to conclude without having to understand what people are passing through. There are gamblers that are passing through hell, looking for money by all means to solve problems and as a result of that, they became an addict.

People do really only make out some realizations on the time or moment that they do find themselves on such situation on which they should have avoided it earlier if they do make themselves being mindful into their actions. We do know that when it comes into this aspect then it will really vary or would really be that depending into someones actions if we do really base up with this one. You cant really just that able to avoid sometimes to be not impulsive with gambling knowing that losing money is never been that a good thing. You will really be definitely be having that kind of problem on the moment that you will really be losing up control.
In regarding about self exclusions then this is really something a feature or thing that could be seen on some centralized casinos but for those decentralized then it cant be possible. In overall approach on which self exclusion is really that useless feature on which as long you dont make yourself that make those realizations or simply mind off on quitting then there's no way for you to stop no matter what are the things that you would gonna do. If you dont find yourself having those realizations then it will really be that unlikely that you would be able to quit up. There's no way that you could be able to do so just because on the time that addiction had shackled you in then there's no way that you could easily be able to get out. This is why you should really be that mindful on dealing up with things.