Quite sometimes now i have been active in the gambling section and have pick interest to start gambling i have gone through lots of material in both the forum, i have seen that I can control my emotion as well as controlling my finance this includes;
- Not involving myself in a revenge gambling
- Not chasing profit after lost
- Not involving oneself into compulsive gambling
- Not solely replying on every game to be 100 percent correct
- Not hoping that gamble is guaranteed
- Not gambling with all my income or salaries
- Among all, gambling for fun and not to enrich oneself
The point is my husband doesn't know that i have been secretly gambling and involving myself with gambling discussions and the rest, So, this morning when i woke something in me keeps telling me i should let him know to understand my involvement to practice gambling.
Does this worth telling him or not please i need you collective ideas.
I'm not trying to say that gambling should be for men only, but it isn't ideal for a woman to gamble especially if you are married and have kids, men are more rational and in control of their emotions by nature women on the other hand don't have the capability to handle that chaos that comes with the frustration and depression of gambling, cause at the end of the day you have to hold the family together and you need to be in the right state of mind to do that, I agree that some women play for fun but my advice is to flee from it totally
It is not a bad idea if women gamble because we have seen it several times on those who play slot. However, it is when the husband does not like gambling that it will be something bad to him for his wife to gamble. If she her husband is not bothered about his wife gambling, she can gamble occasionally with very little amount of money just for her to enjoy the fun in it. It is when she starts or see gambling as a means to make profit that it becomes bad, because she might one day use the family money in her custody and gamble it all which will affect her marriage.