Rather than spending all day long emphasizing on what to do at the point you're almost exiting the world, isn't it best to focuse on how to be more productive at the time you're in your prime and enjoy the didvend of your Bitcoin stack while you yet alive?
If I have the interest of supporting people and getting them to benefit from Bitcoin, I would rather introduce to Bitcoin and educate them on the importance of investing in Bitcoin so they wouldn't have to wait for me to send in my Bitcoin to them when I'm getting old. If I do so and they squander it all the next day, who looses? All what I've held because of how precious I took it to be will all be gone because I left it in the hands of one that couldn't manage it well.
I am still of the view that in the end everyone can do whatever they want regardless of whether they will share their seed with the closest person or not it goes back to their respective perspectives and I will not correct your choice by enjoying the results of the bitcoin pile that you have later because that is your business but we must remember that no one can predict the arrival of death so in the end we do not know death will come and how can we do to enjoy it when you do not know when it will come, in other conditions, when indeed your goal has indeed arrived and wants to spend a pile of bitcoins on the grounds of enjoying life in your golden age whether in the end it is in accordance with the expectations that you aspire to when just starting to be in bitcoin because in the end this must also be questioned to yourself do not let when you spend your bitcoin you regret it after spending it.
For the problem of sharing bitcoin with the closest person with the concept as an inheritance it will also not be something bad especially when we already have a family and responsibilities such as wife and children, as for when in the end they cannot adjust as you did in bitcoin before it is not your fault and bitcoin will also not lose its value, it's just that your family cannot utilize it properly but it is also not to blame because in the end when the bitcoin you have is given it means it is not yours and you cannot intervene in what happens afterwards.